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post #1 of 8 (permalink) Old 12-06-2016, 03:03 PM Thread Starter
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So, my stbxh and I separated 7 weeks ago and we had sex about 2.5 weeks ago, the only time once separation. My tubes are tied but I've had 2 ectopic pregnancies in our relationship. I feel like I am not pregnant. I've had morning sickness for the past week and all the other signs (I do NOT want this). We had sex at the very beginning of my menstrual cycle, so I have 1.5 weeks to my next cycle date.

Providing I take a test and it's positive (which I've never felt this and not been) do I even tell him? It could be ectopic again, so should I see my doctor first? Would he have to help me with medical costs if I have to have another procedure?

I'm sorry, I realize this is premature but I'm freaking out.

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I would take the test, and if it is positive then see your doctor.

As for telling him, if you are pregnant I would wait until I knew for sure it was not ectopic before I said anything.



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Take a test immediately. Go get one now. Get your answer to that part.

I would say if he cared enough to make love to you a few weeks back, he would want to know your pregnant, ectopic or not. No reason to go it alone.

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Makes no sense, with the medical issues you're described it should be very hard for you to get pregnant. If you've had two ectopic pregnancy, we're they caught before they damage the tube. Most ectopic pregnancy ends up destroying the tube making the person infertile unless you're defining the odds.

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Makes no sense, with the medical issues you're described it should be very hard for you to get pregnant. If you've had two ectopic pregnancy, we're they caught before they damage the tube. Most ectopic pregnancy ends up destroying the tube making the person infertile unless you're defining the odds.

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I had an ectopic pregnancy and I did not destroy the tube. It was caught very early.
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Typically your spouse will be responsible for your medical costs if they have been during the marriage [until the divorce is final]

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Immediately get to your OB/GYN for a detailed analysis!

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