I'm happy for you
Me and my husband have been seperated since Aug 28th and have been communicating since Oct 3rd. It was a slow and painful processof many ups and downs, but I think we are finally hopefully not going to have have so many downs where I feel as though I've suddenly fallen off of a cliff!!
We have not had a date yet. My husband has not wanted to go out on one, but we have gone shopping alone without kids together. Been to family functions as a family. He has come to the house to fix things, which makes me happy because it shows he really does care about making life easier for me.
We talk on the phone every day when he gets off work and has cell signal, like clockwork every day at 5:15 and he calls often because he is wondering what I'm doing. He does not get great signal when at home at his parents so we text for about 2 hrs every night.
Our cell phone bills went seperate as soon as the seperation happened. Last week we ordered new cell phones with another carrier where he is the bill owner and phones are on a family plan. We both just ported our phone numbers to the new carrier last night.
I informed him last night that I put my wedding ring back on. Our come together has been slow, but we have accomplished a lot of communication and putting years of hurt behind us (at least on my part). We both relized what was not working in the marriage and I think tons of BIG BIG things have been fixed. We have both admitted our mistakes.
For us its communication was started on Oct 3rd when my husband asked me if I really wanted a divorce. I said "NO I did not!!" So now to the present day Dec 7th....We have made huge progress I feel.
No date yet though,
I hope you have great progress too. Good luck!!!