Join Date: Sep 2014
Location: Newhall, California
Re: Need help/ideas dealing with separation/Divorce
OP The best thing you could do is take peoples advice hear your wife is cheating on you physically let's get that straight right now sorry. She is not your wife anymore she is your enemy. She choose another man you need to take a vantage of the situation and get all you can while she's in her fog get her to sign some agreement about your pension get all that in writing and have it maybe written up by your lawyer. Make no mistake, cheaters lie and she's a liar first of all have you ever read up on bipolar what they go through sexually I'm sure you have I don't know why you wouldn't think she was in a PA. The best thing to do for your life and for your kids to Divorce her now. You know this to be true. Do yourself a huge favor take the advice given to you, Buy these good people that are not receiving a paycheck, and have No motivation to do you wrong, they are here to help out of the kindness of their hearts, no one gets paid they do this voluntarily they do this because they were here like you scared not knowing what to do and they came here received help... so they're just passing on what was so freely given to them. The people here in do a huge service to our society for absolutely nothing in return. Where else could you get this help.? When discovering The biggest nightmare of your life, you find out your wives or husbands cheating on you. You can't call the cops, sure you can call for individual counseling for marriage counseling but most likely the appointment are days away if not weeks. Their asses are falling off right now they need help now. The good people of TAM are here for 24 hours a day. So I tend to get a little pissed off 😡 When some guy comes here for help and he's getting pissed off at some TAM member, because he's telling him the truth about his precious WW who's having a full on PA .
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