Re: Seperation Turning Point
paperclip, congratulations on reaching your turning point. It must have been a tough time for you, and I am glad you made it through the ordeal. In reading this post, I wished there was some way I could help. And then I realized that I could help, by suggesting a few steps you could take to speed your life along. So here they are!
You've been separated over a year. She hooked up with another guy within a week of you moving out. GET A LAWYER AND FILE FOR
Search this site or Marriage Builders for something called the "180." It is a set of behaviors you can engage in to help yourself further separate emotionally from your nonexistent relationship, so that you can move on with your life and maybe meet someone who is worth having a relationship with.
And that's it. You've reached a good spot, emotionally. So take that success and build on it, and move on to a better happier life!