Re: Wife moved out (she needs space but says she loves me?)
If she wants to be indecisive, you take control and make the decision. You saw what happened when you pull the way. She chased. However, the moment you begin reciprocate she starts to pull away. That Push Pull Dynamic is indicative typically of two things: either personality disorder, or deep resentment. Unless she is willing to address whichever of those it may be, there is little you can do to overcome it.
Focus on you, keep moving on, and have a definite point of no return lest you remain in limbo for an extended period of time.
"Our ability to feel joy is directly related to how much pain we are willing to feel." - Mavash.
"The truth is, everyone is going to hurt you. You just got to find the ones worth suffering for." - Bob Marley