Re: Wife moved out (she needs space but says she loves me?)
Hi Canada75, now about the house. I can relate since my mother died and left me a large chunk of cash. At the time my then H was going through a downard spiral, wasn't working huge health problems, and I didn't know at the time, but he was cheating left and right (I was pretty dumb). I bought us a house. He could not qualify for the mortgage but I could. So I put the house in both names and only my name was on the note. I wanted him to believe it was our family home. Less than a year later, when I found out what he had been doing, he wanted half the house, or rather he wanted me to give him half the house in cash. Nope. I could trace it back to my separate funds and I didn't lose that. I paid him one-half of the equity that had accumulate in that year. My family was 100% against me putting his name on the deed, but at the time I was trying to support the H. Spouses do that, until..
When someone tells you that don't want you around, believe them.
I'm really sorry you are going through this, it hurts, its confusing. It is not terminal. I encourage you to keep posting and all kinds of people here will help you work through what ever issues arise. You really aren't alone.
In youth it was a way I had, to do my best to please, And change, with every passing lad to suit his theories.
But now I know the things I know, and do the things I do; And if you do not like me so, To hell, my love, with you! --Dorothy Parker