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post #16 of 17 (permalink) Old 01-19-2017, 08:44 AM
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I would second this. My husband asked me for it during our separation bc he wasn't getting it elsewhere. I gave it only bc I wanted it myself. He said that sex stuck in his mind and made him realize he still loved me. Not to say your wife will feel the same, but if there's still a spark she will not be able to deny it.

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post #17 of 17 (permalink) Old 01-20-2017, 08:10 AM Thread Starter
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Re: So confused

Thank you all for your advice. I really appreciate the kind and harsh words. Each persons story/situation is different. I agree with the analogy that chasing after a dog is less effective then waiting for it to come back. I think i'm going to stop chasing and trying to get her to come back but have her miss me and if she doesn't then i won't lose anything in trying. As far as NSA , i am the more emotional one with that. I feel i would get to attached. Its easy to say just have meaningless sex with no attachment , but its totally different to do it. Same as just being non-nonchalant about my feelings toward her. I am inspired by the few who said there may be a chance. I am working on myself, not for her but for me, and whoever comes into my life next, hopefully her but if not someone else. I accept my faults and am trying to work thru them and going to counseling. Logically it is easy to say if she wants to leave then just let her go and move on with your life, but your mind and heart together can play some serious tricks on you. I will update thru out my life journey here to let you know and hopefully help others. This is my way of letting out my frustration/depression/sadness/happiness. Thank you all and God Bless
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