12-14-2011, 09:21 PM
Join Date: Jun 2011
| | Re: Stuck with him for a month!
When my husband told me he wanted out, I too had to continue living with him for 1 month till he moved out. That 1 month was the hardest period of grief. Not so much because I knew he was going to move out, but mainly the arrogance, indifference, rudeness, tactlessness he was putting up to me during that month. Suddenly I was made to feel like I was a piece of burden to him, a barrier to his happiness, someone standing in his way to a better life. And all these while he dated a bunch of women like I no longer was his wife, came home late each night reeking of perfume, standing outside the house frequently for his private phone chats, smiling and beaming...while my world shattered beyond any pain I ever knew.
But these things have a way of turning it round for us. Because each time I miss him now, all I have to do is think back what a horrible piece of scum he was for hurting me like that...and I instantly wish to move on without him.
Honestly, what I can say is - the sooner they get out of the house and leave you, the better. Try to go out often while he's there. Because they can act like the biggest a****** when they suddenly don't want you anymore, so its better to avoid them.