Some people may know me from ther forums. Long story short, the last three weeks I've been trying to R with my WH. Yesterday I discoved that he has been seeing his OW all through out 'R'!
I packed all his stuff sent it to her house, facebooked her to say that I hope they have a nice life together, and exposed him to all our friends and family.
Theres no going back now, i can never trust anything he says.
We never married but were together almost 10 years, have two children together and a joint mortgage. We are in loads of debt but the vast majority in solely in his name, about 1k in mine.
I am a student midwife and recieve a bursary and other benefit related income that mean once i've set every thing up I can support myself and my children in the family home.
This morning I sent a email telling him that i do not want to see or speak to him and all arrangement can be made via email
Looking for support and advice ... i've never been in this situation before, I've been with him since I was 20 (incidentally the age of his 'OW')
I haven't told the children anything yet