Wondering if this is really true? I have left my husband of 19 years one week ago. He was my second marriage and I his first. We have no kids together, but he did help raise my two from the first marriage. The kids are grown and gone and have been for a few years. During this empty nesting, we started growing far apart, not sleeping in the same room due to snoring, common conversations and interest went almost nonexistent. I have felt we have just become room mates and a source of income. We have tried through the years to work through things and say we'll try or change, but at our ages, we knew it would not work that way. I finally decided last week to calmly tell him that we are too different people and have grown very far apart. I told him I would move out temporarily until he could have our renter move out of a property we have as an investment. He will then move into that property and he agreed for me to keep the house. We have nothing to fight over and the only binding items are our debts. We have been very cordial over the last week about everything, which I am grateful, but I jus pray this will stay the course. My first divorce was ugly and never want to go through that again. I still love my husband and always want his health and happiness in life. Is it strange to be so agreeing through this difficult time?