Husband dating while separated
We separated in September after 9 years together. We have a three year old together. He immediately started dating around and eventually found a girl who is going through a separation as well. They have been together for three months. Up until two weeks ago he has had nothing to do with our son. He hasn't helped me with even a penny. Suddenly he has begun to talk with him a couple nights a week and see him once or twice. He now wants our son to meet his girlfriend who also has a little boy who is three years old. I have full custody of our son and it says that he is not allowed to meet anyone that we are dating unless it has been exclusive for six months. I said this to him and he seems content to wait which is great. I really don't want to meet the new girl yet let alone let our son meet her. I'm probably getting ahead of myself but I can't imagine another woman in my child's life right now. I feel like it's too soon. I know it's going to happen eventually, but how do I cope with this?He's only three but it's obvious that he is confused about where daddy has been. Idk how to feel about anything. Also, my ex keeps saying things like he never wanted a divorce and the only reason we did is because of his father. He never made an ounce of effort once the word divorce was put on the table. I feel like he is all about keeping up with appearances. Also, why I think he is suddenly trying to be in his sons life. I feel like his gf was starting to notice. I am mainly on here to vent. Sorry for my long rant.