Re: Entering Divorce proceedings
Have you read any of the links or reviewed any of the material I suggested? As to MC, use it as a tool to gain insight into how your actions and words might effect others. Don't defend yourself at this time. Instead listen and learn. Then review the material I suggested and make adjustments if YOU feel they are needed.
Two most important traits to posses: listening and hearing, using silence to force additional info into the open. Does the phase "hidden objections " ring a bell?
How to deal with an unrepentant spouse: an Irish person can tell a person to go to hell and have them so excited at the prospect they demand to know when, where the train is leaving and how to get a ticket. Then offer them a loan to get the ticket and a ride to the train station. Be Irish