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post #1 of 48 (permalink) Old 03-03-2017, 05:40 PM Thread Starter
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Its Over and Somehow I got taken for a fool.... again

Well after my 4 year long saga of my marriage and crazy wife i just found out she went to court and got her divorce without me present because I had not been informed of the date. I had fired my attorney and he was dismissed at the last court date and then she slipped back in and the judge gave her everything she wanted because I wasnt there. Now im severely depressed as well as there is injustice here, PLEASE READ MY Threads. The question here is I feel relieved in a way but she is a sick woman and now im ready to jump off a bridge. I cant do this anymore. She is truly a freak of a human, no doubt Somebody like I have never seen or only on Dateline. My poor children have no idea yet but someone please read about the incredible nighmares Ive been through with her, im ready to die

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Well after my 4 year long saga of my marriage and crazy wife i just found out she went to court and got her divorce without me present because I had not been informed of the date. I had fired my attorney and he was dismissed at the last court date and then she slipped back in and the judge gave her everything she wanted because I wasnt there. Now im severely depressed as well as there is injustice here, PLEASE READ MY Threads. The question here is I feel relieved in a way but she is a sick woman and now im ready to jump off a bridge. I cant do this anymore. She is truly a freak of a human, no doubt Somebody like I have never seen or only on Dateline. My poor children have no idea yet but someone please read about the incredible nighmares Ive been through with her, im ready to die
Please, please don't harm yourself. Call someone if you can or get yourself checked into a treatment center.

Moderators, is there anything you can do?
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You know, why not though. Seriously why not? I really dont have anything and any purpose at this point. My children were my drive and thats pretty much gone because she will manipulate them into her sick little corner, as she has already been doing. Not seeing anyone special and doubt that will ever happen nor care I think. Running out of money trying to keep my business going because she took every penny from my cash savings. And she is sick believe me. Its been the cat and mouse for years and I thought I was the cat , got custody, house, everything. Then she weaseled her way back in somehow because im an idiot and took the rug out under. Im 46 years old and have ZERO because of her . So why not?? Why not noose up and take the plunge?? Could it get better , there isnt any better
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National Suicide Prevention Lifeline

The Lifeline provides 24/7, free and confidential support for people in distress, prevention and crisis resources for you or your loved ones, and best practices for professionals.

1-800-273-8255

Please give this number a call... and never give up any power like that to the person I just read about in your other threads.
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I feel I have been defeated for not only truth and justice but also in life and what is right. I feel now that I have wasted my life and everything about it by being honest and really caring. This world is just too twisted for the good people who try do the right thing.
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Nothing in life is wasted my friend... the world delivers lessons to those like you who can endure.

I can hear how frustrated you are... please call the number mentioned before and get someone on the phone who is able to guide you to someone that can help you right now.

Get those good people in your life...
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National Suicide Prevention Lifeline

The Lifeline provides 24/7, free and confidential support for people in distress, prevention and crisis resources for you or your loved ones, and best practices for professionals.

1-800-273-8255

Please give this number a call... and never give up any power like that to the person I just read about in your other threads.
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Please call the above hotline and get help for the suicidal thoughts.

The best reason I can think of to not do it is for your children. They need for you to fight for them.

Have you talked to a lawyer about what happened? See if you can get any of this turned around.
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Elegirl, im sure you remember me. Here I am swimming in circles. but drowning
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I have no money for a lawyer anymore, she wiped me clean

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I have no money for a lawyer anymore, she wiped me clean
Yes I remember you.

@Emerging Buddhist gave you a list of web sites for father's and men's rights. Take a look at those.

I'm sure that you feel like you have in black pit right now. But you got to pull it together.

Here on TAM we are not equipped to help someone who is in a suicidal state. That's why you need to call the hotline. And why you also need to get you butt to a doctor ASAP. You need anti-depressants so you can pull yourself up and get out of this black state you are in.


(by the way, I want to merge your two accounts.)
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@BCC123 (bcc), God that you relied on on your opening threads on TAM hasn't abandoned you, please turn to your same faith, seek out the spiritual leadership there for you and keep that light in your life and your children's life. @EleGirl is spot on that your children will need you now more than ever.

Business is only one way to provide that which motivates... people need people that care, and you are a caring soul. So what if you are not in charge... let it go and become that which people still rely on, just differently.

I'll be sending you loving and kindness in my evening meditation tonight, you do deserve better than you've been given... show those you love how to mold that into action and be the rock the waves beat against relentlessly without noticeable wear.

Sure... we all wear down over time, we cannot stop that, but there is no unnecessary to it... it is simply what it is. Embrace the changes your life throws at you... she cannot break you.

Persevere brother... success is measured within ourselves.
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BCC, please call the suicide hotline ele provided.

You're in a dark place, but life throws us stuff sometimes and there's always a light at the end of the tunnel if you're willing to look for it.

You can do it, and you owe it to your kids to try.

Give them a call if you haven't done so already. You have nothing to lose by doing so.
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Elegirl, please merge my accounts, I need support from you guys
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