12-26-2011, 09:23 PM
Join Date: Apr 2011
| | Re: Recently seperated Help please
The relationship isn't a priority for her at this moment. Thats why she left, to get away and have a break for it. The relationship should be a priority to you though, since you want it so badly.
I would figure out what it was that hurt her so bad, and take active steps in bettering YOURSELF before you can bring her back into the relationship. She doesn't like how she was treated and unless she sees a drastic change in your actions, she probably won't be too concerned with working things out. She is testing you. She wants to know how much she means to you, and you have to show her by doing everything you can to better yourself. You can't make your relationship better without having to better yourself first.
Give her the space she needs. Go dark on her. Go see a separate therapist ontop of your MC. It sounds like you have a problem coping with stress and she has been the brunt of it all, and can't do it anymore.
Help me believe its not the real me. Somebody help me tame this animal I have become.