12-26-2011, 09:09 PM
Join Date: Apr 2011
| | Re: Setting boundaries, kindly and firmly
Well, its your house. He should realize that its your house, your rules. You don't show up at his place unannounced, he shouldn't do the same for you. He should knock and wait for you to answer the door.
When my husband spoke of divorce earlier this year (he was seeing another woman) I told him fine, divorce. You don't get to see me naked anymore, and ontop of that, I'm leaving. It opened his eyes up for the moment, anyways. Of course it didn't last long and when I returned to him, the abuse escalated and I had to leave shortly after again. But boundaries are boundaries. You are two separate people again in divorce, not one like you were in marriage. Its time for your husband to realize it.
Help me believe its not the real me. Somebody help me tame this animal I have become.