Re: Unwillngly separated wife took kids need adv
The mediator/lawyer office is 1/2 way between us in the town where my mother lives. My mother has already agreed to watch the kids. My daughter will have to take a 1/2 day of school which I have no problem w/. My W had no problem taking her out of school for 3 days for their FL vacation and I think this is a little more important.
My wife has no schedule, no job so I don't care too much if she is inconvenienced by this. I am taking a 1/2 day off from work. I know she is not going to give me full custody of kids but this will be my starting position. I want to be able to stay in my house, which she has already agreed to. I put $36K down and she only $10K. There might be $20K equity in it. Other than that I am prepared to offer her apprx. 1/2 of what my 401k earned since the marriage and she can have everything else, (except my car). I work for federal government and will have a pension which I do not want her to get any of but is negotiable. The furniture is mostly hers, etc.
Like I told her I want quick easy and as inexpensive and painless as possible.