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post #31 of 32 (permalink) Old 03-22-2017, 09:01 PM Thread Starter
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Re: Just Separated and Feeling Hopeless

Yes, I think you are right on about the short fuse in this area. But if I look honestly at the last few years, I didn't feel a lot of love/affection from him.

That was my complaint. He is a more quiet person, rarely compliments me, and is not affectionate in the sense of just hugging, kissing, touching. When I would try to talk with him about this, he would just say that is not the type of person he is. So, maybe the truth is that he hasn't had these feelings for me in a long, long time.

Yes, it would be a huge betrayal if he were cheating. I can't really focus on what he might be doing right now though. As everyone says, I need to focus on myself. I am typically a really happy, positive person and want to live a happy life.

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Yes, I think you are right on about the short fuse in this area. But if I look honestly at the last few years, I didn't feel a lot of love/affection from him.

That was my complaint. He is a more quiet person, rarely compliments me, and is not affectionate in the sense of just hugging, kissing, touching. When I would try to talk with him about this, he would just say that is not the type of person he is. So, maybe the truth is that he hasn't had these feelings for me in a long, long time.

Yes, it would be a huge betrayal if he were cheating. I can't really focus on what he might be doing right now though. As everyone says, I need to focus on myself. I am typically a really happy, positive person and want to live a happy life.
I agree that you need to be focusing mostly on yourself.

My experience is that needing space means cheating. So I would also put some time into finding out if he's cheating. But that's me.
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