12-30-2011, 02:44 AM
Join Date: Jan 2010
| | Re: HUsband is packing now to move back in tomorrow!!
I hope we recover well too. I wish I could sleep tonight, but I must be nervous. I keep having flashbacks of how this seperation started. I also am having these visions of him with the girl he admitted to sleeping with but has never told me much of any details. I don't know why I'm wondering if it happened before he even went to live with his parents. Wondering if it happened before he even knew there was going to be a restraining order. I know he stayed at a small motel far from our house for 3 days as it had come up on our joint account back in September.
I'm also afraid of this girl messing with us. As she purposely had posted on his FB wall and that's how I found out and he ultimately ended up telling me he did something bad about 3 weeks after she posted on his FB. 2 weeks after she posted on FB she messaged me on FB as I had messaged her the day after her posting as to why she missed my husband and what her intentions were. She did not respond until I stayed with him over his birthday weekend. Then she tried to break us up.
So I'm afraid she will start stuff again with him living here.
She has not been brought up in marriage counseling yet. I do want to move past all the bad and hate to bring up bad again, but I'm afraid she will surface again. I'm not sure her contact has been erased from his phone yet. With him home I will be better able to tell if she is contacting him and will have access to phone bills
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