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post #16 of 17 (permalink) Old 03-29-2017, 11:22 AM
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Re: To move back or move on?

While he certainly is within his rights to divorce you, what is not ok is him jerking you around while here dates others.

Frankly I sense a double standard here.....let's reverse genders:

Guy is depressed and kisses other woman. Wife is understandably upset abs asks him to move out, but then tells him she's not ready for a divorce while she dates other men.

I doubt most posters here would be ok with that.

If he needs time to think that's fine, but if he's going to date other women just file for divorce now. Sounds like an excuse for him to see others.

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post #17 of 17 (permalink) Old 03-30-2017, 02:26 PM
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Re: To move back or move on?

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While he certainly is within his rights to divorce you, what is not ok is him jerking you around while here dates others.

Frankly I sense a double standard here.....let's reverse genders:

Guy is depressed and kisses other woman. Wife is understandably upset abs asks him to move out, but then tells him she's not ready for a divorce while she dates other men.

I doubt most posters here would be ok with that.

If he needs time to think that's fine, but if he's going to date other women just file for divorce now. Sounds like an excuse for him to see others.
I agree if he is done he should be done. However if he told her and she still wants to hold on that is on her. I think OP needs to give up hope. I would say the same no matter what gender.
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