Re: To move back or move on?
While he certainly is within his rights to divorce you, what is not ok is him jerking you around while here dates others.
Frankly I sense a double standard here.....let's reverse genders:
Guy is depressed and kisses other woman. Wife is understandably upset abs asks him to move out, but then tells him she's not ready for a divorce while she dates other men.
I doubt most posters here would be ok with that.
If he needs time to think that's fine, but if he's going to date other women just file for divorce now. Sounds like an excuse for him to see others.