01-14-2012, 09:55 AM
Join Date: Jul 2011
| | Re: Wife wants divorce. Informed me at Christmas!
Originally Posted by jono
Hi everyone. An update. Unfortunately it has turned out my wife has indeed been cheating on me & has found someone else.
Thanks for the help & advice during this time. Naturally I'm devastated but can begin moving on & will prepare myself for a legal battle I will not let her win.
BTW - one bit of advice on dealing with the affair - expose it wide and far. Not out of vengeance, but because it's the right thing to do.
The affair obviously can't stand the light of truth - otherwise she wouldn't have worked so hard to hide it.
Hire a PI to do the work - remember to charge the cost of the PI against her share of the divorce settlement.
Then when you have the facts and the proof - don't confront her - instead expose it wide and far - friends - family - work - and most importantly the OM's life.