mgw00

Im in New york and we signed our separation agreement 1 month ago and then filed for divorce. We got a call 2 days ago that the judge said it was fine and it was to be filed and finalized Jan. 3 ...2 days from now. She filed for divorce against me.. but yesterday I found out she has been having an affair for the past 4 months during the mediation process. Do I have anything I can do?... or since the separation agreement was signed and we filed for divorce and the judge granted it is it too late to do anything different?

KanDo

What different would you do?

mgw00

Possible look to change the custody agreement with our 4 small kids under 10 years old. Right now its a 50/50 split...but maybe I can get them more now? But not sure I can really change anything with the agreement signed and and the judge ok'ing the divorce.

Shaggy

Do you live somewhere that infidelity would have affected the judgement?

If you're in a nofault state - then it's not relevant.

mgw00

As of July 2010 New york is now recognized as a "no fault' state.

Shaggy

Then even if she was with him before the meeting and then meeting him in a hotel across the street - it wouldn't have made any difference.