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Old 01-01-2012, 06:20 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Im in New york and we signed our separation agreement 1 month ago and then filed for divorce. We got a call 2 days ago that the judge said it was fine and it was to be filed and finalized Jan. 3 ...2 days from now. She filed for divorce against me.. but yesterday I found out she has been having an affair for the past 4 months during the mediation process. Do I have anything I can do?... or since the separation agreement was signed and we filed for divorce and the judge granted it is it too late to do anything different?
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What different would you do?
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Possible look to change the custody agreement with our 4 small kids under 10 years old. Right now its a 50/50 split...but maybe I can get them more now? But not sure I can really change anything with the agreement signed and and the judge ok'ing the divorce.
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Do you live somewhere that infidelity would have affected the judgement?

If you're in a nofault state - then it's not relevant.
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As of July 2010 New york is now recognized as a "no fault' state.
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Then even if she was with him before the meeting and then meeting him in a hotel across the street - it wouldn't have made any difference.
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