My ex husband wants to try and work on getting back together after being divorced for
I filed for divorce with my now ex husband 2 1/2 years ago. I moved out with our two boys, bought a home about 1 hour from him. When we got divorced it was very difficult for him, it was hard on me but i felt i was making the right decision. He and i now get along, we at times stay at eath others houses, i stay at his because i get together with friends, we stay out late and i just stay and never thought anything of it. he stays at my place at times since its far and the boys like that their dad stays sometimes. we do not sleep together! now he has mentioned he would like to try and work it out in hopes of getting back togethter. now i have been through a lot, he and i lost each other, we never did things together. it was if we were roommates. he was not there emotionally for me, i just felt empty. now he wants to work on this to see if we can connect?? i dont understand. He has all the chances in the world to work on this with me before the divorce, now he want s to try?? i have no idea what to think. sure it would be nice for the kids, but how can i do this? how do you know if its right or not? how does one go from divorce to. I dont even know what to ask here. any thoughts, questions from anyone to help me figure this out would be appreciated.