Ahh the good ole "I'm gonna kill myself" my husband does that all the time. I've already had to pull him out of his car in the garage twice. Yes he needs help but he will never admit it; it's everyone else's fault.
I wish I never married him as I know my life would have been so different.
Talk? Ha ha ha ha and he's a communication's major, talk I think we say 5 sentences to each other in a week. If it's not what he wants to hear then forget about it he shuts down.
I'm trapped, unhappy, and don't want to be blamed if he kills himself because "he can't live without me". He means "who is going to cook for me?" he's a weak man.
It took me 17 years to figure out how useless he is. Want examples fine I'll give you a trillion examples.
"hon the piece came in for the grand kids bed to fix it as it had a recall" do you really think he would actually fix it? NOPE, so one of the grandkids fell thru, he was warned but too lazy to fix it.
Cripes there are way to many and I'm tired of doing everything.
He's lost 50 lbs so he is skin and bones and he looks like a girl naked so yes I am totally turned off. He is 6'2 weighs 150 is he dying? I don't know he looks it but HE doesn't seem to see how gross he looks, everyone see's it.....Is he dying I get asked that all the time. I say yes because he looks sick and he won't go to the doctor. I'm not his mother he's a grown ass man of 60 yrs old.
Boring boring boring we have nothing in common. WHY was I so desperate to get married? To be loved why why why? Now if I leave him I lose my grand kids (that's how it works and don't even try to tell me it would be different it wouldn't as soon as I got a new man my step kids would be bye) so I am stuck as I love my grand kids but my husband is an ******* a man of no communication.
I can now see why his 1st wife cheated. If this is the way he was with her (oh and he does NOT do oral sex so I haven't had oral sex in 17 yrs
but he's going to be one lonely ass man.
He looks handsome but once he takes out some of his teeth, gets naked, farts and burps 1000 times the next woman won't last so long as I did.
I'm stuck too but I am glad I found this site as I know I'm not alone.