Re: Separated but talking
Natasha, Can you provide more background about why the house is such a problem? Is it his alone because of the prenup? If that's what the real problem is, maybe you should be focusing on changing or eliminating the Prenup so things are more equitable. Even if you live elsewhere, it is still an asset he isn't sharing with you, so it doesn't rally solve the problem.
I hope you are correct in your impression that he is trying to do things better. To make your marriage better long term, I would also encourage you to think of ways you can improve also. Even if the things you think of are small, it will go along way to encourage both of you if the effort is mutual. I tried a reconciliation with an ex, and the efforts were all one sided. That doesn't work. Don't go back unless its clear both of you are trying.