Re: Please help I dont know what to do and feel suicidal
Rumple, do not buy into her BS. It is because of the OM, why didn't she leave before he started purusing her if she was unhappy?. This is an exit affair.
This identical to my situation, except we don't have children. My stbxw didn't even tell me what I did wrong, but now I see it would have been worthless, seeing as how they are justfying their leaving.
I got the same been decided for 6 months and have to muster the courage. As you can see they are all lies and they follow the same script. The truth is she is as responsible for the breakdown of the marriage as you are. The difference is that another man pursued her and she took the opportunity because she is dishonest. She probably was seeing the OM for longer than she cares to admit.
My stbxw says she was so unhappy with the marriage that she decided to be happy with whatever life gave her. In her case the OM is childhood friend, divorced, jobless and with a child. She thinks the world of him and is even giving him money. There is no logic.
Why would you want to hug or remain friends with someone who has betrayed you?. She wants you to be her doormat. You should have nothing more than a cordial relationship with her because of your daughter.
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Last edited by hamati; 01-25-2012 at 05:22 PM.