Title states it all, married 3 weeks. Everything seemed perfect, and was going well. One day at work she was acting somewhat distant. So, I called her (assuming she was just upset about changing her last name to mine because none of her records match) and asked if everything is alright. She replied with yes so I went back on with my work day. Decided to leave work early cause it was her off day and figured she could use me around the house and noticed a facebook message that read "I need to tell you something, I saw a therapist day, and Im not happy anymore". So I calmly replied with I will be here to help and talk if need be. So, when she finally gets home, she tells me she needs to be alone, like alone alone where I'm not in there picture. At this point, Im very confused as I hadnt done anything. So, fast forward two weeks Ive moved out, let her keep the place so my son can still keep his home. She tells me she doesnt see us getting back together. Has told me that Im not the issue and thats it her. That she didnt want to get married, and figured getting married might fill the void she feels. More details arise as days go on, but to me what it boils down to is she was having second thoughts about being in a relationship. She's told me that shes been in something with another man since the age of 14, and has never just been by herself. Shes 24 now, and has always lived with her boyfriends over the years. So, yes I can somewhat understand the need to be alone since you really havent most of your life, but to do this AFTER we get married? We've been a couple off an on for 5 years now. More on than off though. She has since told me that something I had said a few months back tipped her over the edge and that I was the one who put the nail in the coffin. Ive changed drastically over the past 6 months to give her everything she wants or needs and putting myself last. We've been apart before, so this isnt new, but its never felt permanent. She says she wants to work on her personal happiness and cant do that with me in the picture. Im terrified I dont get to wake up next to her anymore or hold her hand or make any more memories together. She said she doesn't want a divorce, but that could also just be her trying to go easier on my since this all came out of left field to begin with. Im just scared, because my marriage means the world to me, but it doesnt seem like she wants to ever have it back the way it was.