Re: Not proud! but I had to do it something...
well, she demanded to know, whether our divorce would be contested, or uncontested...i tried to explain that i dont know...and that i dont think this is uncontested...and that i had no interest in taking all of her money or anything vindictive...she FREAKED out started screaming "WHY ARE YOU DOING THIS TO ME?"...as if divorce is what *I* wanted?!?
I told her, it hurts me more than she could possible imagine to talk about ANY of this, i dont want her money, i just want to move on with my life, safe and secure...not scraping to get by because she left me with nothing.
I said "This hurts so bad, the pain is unbearable sometimes and it makes me just want to die because it hurts so much!"
Her response was "Then Fing kill yourself, and put us both out of our misery, just kill yourself."....
People say a lot when angry...but I believe that people also speak what they mean more so when angry...because they just cant hold it back.
Anyhow..I hung up the phone...distraught by that....she kept calling me back...started texting me...talking to people i know, to get them to convince me to talk to her...i just can't handle that...NO ONE should ever have to hear someone that they love(or loved) say THAT to them