Thanks for the kind words...Today was BAD...
She went from elusive, to aggressive in the worst way.
I confronted her...and someone else she speaks to about the ordeal. Apparently she is "terrified of me" and hasn't been flying out of town (though the search results are all matching the dates she has been unavailable)
she has been staying with a friend, and is absolutely terrified of me? i've NEVER yelled at her in the 8 years we were together...never raised a hand, barely even raised my voice! WHY would she be terrified of me? what's the logic in this?
I told her about what I found in our house, she flipped about me getting in even after she changed the locks...she had no right to do that anyway. and entering my own home, no matter how i did it...is legal.
She called me a "psycho, stalker" ....i haven't acted psycho at all, but the spying made me feel bad, so the "stalker" word hurt...but i definitely have NOT been stalking...she flatters herself with that one.
She also said "I F*&%ing hate you, and i'm getting a restraining order. Stay the F out of my life. I'm done."
to which she also said, in regards to me getting into my own home "I'm going to take EVERYTHING and then some."
She also mentioned that everything that she bought, and everything we made together is all hers..she earned it, and I don't deserve anything....
So, i'm in a dark corner right now...mostly because I never in my wildest dreams imagined that the person I had loved, and given all my trust to....would turn out to say these most terrible things