Join Date: Feb 2012
Location: Central Texas/Brazos Valley
Re: Separation is Approaching A Year Now/Feels Like Abandonment
Today started well then turned crappy! STBXW brought youngest son back from her town where he had spent the past couple of days trying out for the "little theatre" troupe there.
Well he walked through the door announcing that he was home and said, "Hey, Dad: ____ just had me unload a bunch of boxes with your stuff in it out in the garage." I asked if she was still there and he said that she was in a hurry and took off already.
She never announces her presence or even what she's planning on doing. I certainly could have waited on these boxes. I mean, they've been with her for better than a year now. Can't quite see what a few more months would hurt. If she really wanted to do something useful, she could have moved the furniture that I had inherited from my parents that is old, quite nice, and supplies that big old house of "hers"~ (just ask her, she'll tell you!)~ with all of its ambience and charm!
But what really got me PO'd the most was that my youngest son said that she had him packing boxes and loading those heavy things out to her pickup truck for transport. So I guess that there was an ulterior motive, after all, in having him come over for a day or two other than for having him stay with her, certainly out of the sheer goodness of her heart!
Last edited by arbitrator; 06-06-2012 at 11:29 PM.