Join Date: Feb 2012
Location: Central Texas/Brazos Valley
Re: Separation is Approaching A Year Now/Feels Like Abandonment
May-June, 2011(Moveout ordered by STBXW effective 5/21/2011)
Arbitrator 48 Calls/129 Minutes = 2.7 minutes per call. 38 placed as incoming calls by Arbitrator; 10 placed by STBXW.(Longest call: 12 minutes)
Austin 15 Calls/226 Minutes = 15.1 minutes per call. 8 placed as incoming calls by Austin; 7 placed by STBXW.(Longest call: 34 minutes)
Victor 50 Calls/1,404 Minutes = 28.1 minutes per call. 36 placed as incoming calls by Victor; 14 placed by STBXW.(Longest call: 92 minutes)
This is the month that I'm ordered to say "goodbye" to my dwelling as I'm ordered to move out effective 5/21 with taking youngest son to Houston airport for his out-of-state class trip. We left at 6:30AM as he had to be at the airport no later than 9:00AM.
Moved in, albeit temporarily with college aged son at his student apartment suites until the home owner made our house ready for occupancy.
Interesting items from the cell phone bill is that on 5/20, the day prior to my "banishment," Victor places two calls of 106 minutes duration to STBXW at 7:13PM and ending at 8:59PM. I remember her being in her bedroom with the door closed.
The actual day of my departure shows Austin placing a 16 minute call to her at 1:15PM that afternoon. Talk about the buzzards swooping down on dead meat!
While Austin is still making conversation with STBXW, Victor is coming on very strong in that he has increased his talk time with her to 4 digits. While still living in the home, most call activity by both Austin and Victor made during the daytime while I was usually away. Austin called the afternoon of my banishment.
Victors calls seemed to coincide with his practice. He called STBXW almost every morning prior to 7AM(and she was a self professed non-morning person), at lunch time, and at about the end of the work day. On Sunday, 5/22, he placed calls of some 92 minutes to STBXW.
Victor seems to have clearly established an M.O. of calling STBXW very early in the morning prior to 7AM, probably as a "good morning" wake-up call, usually lasting from 50-70 minutes each.
Another interesting aspect of this bill shows that STBXW's cell phone usage indicates a 5/12 trip on her part to the hometown of Victor in South Texas some 3 hours away. She had told me earlier that she had to go into Houston(which she obviously did) but then made a detour South as indicated by her incoming/outgoing calls. She reached his hometown at around 4PM, and was not in communication with anyone until nearly 10PM, when I called her asking when she would be home.(Established 6 hour window) I was told by her that she had encountered some problems and would be starting for home very soon. She actually did arrive back home at about 12:45AM the next morning.
While enroute home, she received Austin's phone calls of some 32 minutes at about 11PM.
For this billing cycle, STBXW's test message usage was reported at 1,077 texts sent/received with 15 picture and video texts.
Last edited by arbitrator; 07-16-2012 at 05:50 AM.
Reason: Additional Information/Analysis