Just gotta not feed that wolf. I love imaging that the wolves are fighting and when I am being a pissy pants I just say stop feeding the bad one. It actually helps.
Well the cool thing about it, is it gives you an object to give the thoughts to and gives you the thought that you are doing something wrong my feeding the bad one.
Not much to talk about really. Had a great weekend with my daughter. Did some more volunteering selling some lemon shake ups at the city bbq cook off.
Daughter and I swam, shopped, ate, went to the BBQ, and just generally hung out. I think she had a good weekend. Someday soon she will be able to tell me!
Anyway, we finally have the agreement done on the custody and now we should be filing the paper work soon. Just a few more kinks.
I have to be honest I am getting to the point of not really needing this site anymore. It has helped me a great deal, but I can see the time to move on is closing in quickly.
This site has been absolutely amazing and the people I have met have been such a great help for growth I have been truely blessed to have met you!
I am not leaving yet, but I fear this might just be my last blog post, until the D is finalized.
Not much to talk about really. Had a great weekend with my daughter. Did some more volunteering selling some lemon shake ups at the city bbq cook off.
Daughter and I swam, shopped, ate, went to the BBQ, and just generally hung out. I think she had a good weekend. Someday soon she will be able to tell me!
Anyway, we finally have the agreement done on the custody and now we should be filing the paper work soon. Just a few more kinks.
I have to be honest I am getting to the point of not really needing this site anymore. It has helped me a great deal, but I can see the time to move on is closing in quickly.
This site has been absolutely amazing and the people I have met have been such a great help for growth I have been truely blessed to have met you!
I am not leaving yet, but I fear this might just be my last blog post, until the D is finalized.
This is all great news.
Sounds like you're in much better spirits than Mike Matheny.
Traggy I feel the same way, I feel that the time has come for me to live more in the real world. I will keep in touch with the special people I've made friends with, but it's been depressing to keep reading about new people going through all the trama that a divorce causes.
Know what you mean...I get depressed reading this stuff too sometimes. I think we should start a thread over in Life After Divorce (just to stay in touch)...even though some of us aren't there yet, technically, we may be outgrowing this forum.
...but I understand. I am starting to feel the same way. There are still definitely some ups and downs...and some thoughts that pop in my brain do sometimes cause me to pause and think and reflect; but, generally speaking, I think that I am able to handle these things on my own.
It isn't like we cant become FB friends honestly, but this site does drag you down when you start to move on. I seriously read maybe two threads anymore. I can not even imagine reading someone else's, new story.
Know what you mean...I get depressed reading this stuff too sometimes. I think we should start a thread over in Life After Divorce (just to stay in touch)...even though some of us aren't there yet, technically, we may be outgrowing this forum.
I'm getting ready to start a third parter to my threads in LID.
Bandit....single life is going good. I'm really starting to enjoy it. There have been a lot of things that I wanted to do when I was with my ex that I never did. I'm trying to cross off my bucket list now.
...but I understand. I am starting to feel the same way. There are still definitely some ups and downs...and some thoughts that pop in my brain do sometimes cause me to pause and think and reflect; but, generally speaking, I think that I am able to handle these things on my own.
Bandit....single life is going good. I'm really starting to enjoy it. There have been a lot of things that I wanted to do when I was with my ex that I never did. I'm trying to cross off my bucket list now.
How are you?
Broke up with gal I was dating. Ex wife is off the grid... I have no clue what she is doing. I am currently getting ready to demolish my kitchen, downstairs bathroom and guest bedroom for renovation. Got 30k in the bank and I'm itching to erase all memories of my wife in the house...by creating a new house.
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