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Old 04-23-2012, 12:50 PM   #106 (permalink)
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Conrad: I bet she does. Got this line from STBXW this weekend: "I still don't know why we are separated. Only you know. What was it I did wrong. You must be with someone." LOL. I replied the text with a list of the reasons why.
Just ignore her. No matter what you say or how you explain things, their brain's wont get it. It wont be long before they want you guys back...
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Old 04-23-2012, 12:52 PM   #107 (permalink)
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Keko: Sounded to me like she wanted another chance. Sent me a text in the middle of the night over the weekend. That ship has sunk for me.
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Old 04-23-2012, 12:57 PM   #108 (permalink)
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I pray she never comes back, because I will tell her no, but I do not want to have to. You know what I mean?
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Old 04-23-2012, 01:00 PM   #109 (permalink)
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I had a dream the other day that my stbxw wanted to come back, and I told her no!
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Old 04-23-2012, 01:10 PM   #110 (permalink)
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Funny I had a similar dream. I suggest preparing yourselves for that moment. I think most of us will have that happen. They will realize their mistake and want to come back. Be ready to say hell no.
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Old 04-23-2012, 01:11 PM   #111 (permalink)
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As they say "fool me once....."
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Old 04-23-2012, 01:14 PM   #112 (permalink)
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This would be me giving her a third chance I gave her a second and it was for nothing. So I really have no excuse.
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Conrad: I bet she does. Got this line from STBXW this weekend: "I still don't know why we are separated. Only you know. What was it I did wrong. You must be with someone." LOL. I replied the text with a list of the reasons why.
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Projection...

She's not there to be with someone. So, YOU must be with someone.
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Old 04-23-2012, 01:58 PM   #114 (permalink)
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Got it, Conrad. It's just crazy the way they act sometimes. I can only imagine what ppl that don't know about the situation would say if she tells them I left to be with someone else. They play the victim and ppl believe them. I was planning to talk to PIL to set things straight. Should I bother with this or just let it be? Don't need the bad press.
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Old 04-23-2012, 01:59 PM   #115 (permalink)
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Traggy sorry I'm invading your thread. Just realized.
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Got it, Conrad. It's just crazy the way they act sometimes. I can only imagine what ppl that don't know about the situation would say if she tells them I left to be with someone else. They play the victim and ppl believe them. I was planning to talk to PIL to set things straight. Should I bother with this or just let it be? Don't need the bad press.
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Old 04-23-2012, 02:04 PM   #117 (permalink)
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Old 04-24-2012, 09:49 PM   #118 (permalink)
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Well, the daughter has been sick the last few days. Naturally, on the first nights I have her by myself.

Poor poor baby.

The ex looked like crap today dropping her off. Whatever. I look at her with pity. Indifference is becoming more and more.

So, for this first weekend without my daughter, I have a bonfire, ballgame, and the blues hockey game to go to. I am going to have a little fun and avoid my crap for the weekend.

I am sure this is going to still be ridiculously hard.

Sleep has been terrible. Woke up last night and thought, gee I bet they are just cuddling in bed right now. Lasted for about 5 minutes and I smacked myself in the face and squashed it.

Anyway, things are moving along. The loan will be signed Thursday along with her name getting off the deed. They under writers got it done quickly. Thank you lord.

Love you all!
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Traggy love you brother. I'm glad you are going to be busy this weekend. I think I'm going to take myswlf out to dinner, go see the new John Cusack movie "The Raven", maybe get myself drunk and take advantage of myself, :-)
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I have a bonfire, ballgame, and the blues hockey game to go to.
Enjoy yourself, Traggy. You deserve it. Start being good to yourself for a change. Hope you don't come down with whatever flu/cold your daughter had.
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