daisygirl 41

10 months on
Dday No 2
He is in love with her
Her H emailed me this morning and told me that he was leaving her today and he thought i should know that they are still in love!
He has emailed their workplace to tell their boss.
The devastation isnt so bad 2nd time around. At least i know now that i wasnt going crazy. It still hurts like hell though.
No more being friends to make him feel better.
With great sadness, i have to report, despite all my efforts, my 18 year marriage is done!
Come on, let me have it .........

that_girl

I'll just let you have a hug.

And half of this pint of Ben and Jerry's if you want

So sorry...so...were you guys trying to R?

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CantePe

I'm so sorry Daisy.

BIG HUGS

daisygirl 41

Thankyou. Ben and Jerrys sounds good. Haven't eaten all day.

I was hoping for R. I still love him dearly. We were seperated but still spent loads of time together.
I was hoping but now the hope has gone! X
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daisygirl 41

Thankyou. I need it tonight.
Just going to Concerntrate on me and my children now
I just feel so let down
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Mark Val

Can prayer work any wonder..? do you believe that a Meta-Cosmic Intelligence has the Cosmos in a Colossal Syntax of a Cosmic Software ..?


---Sorry , that may sound out of situation and esp in your state..

it's not any prank,but srsly and honestly put forth as a suggestion.

Try a prayer...to The Meta-Cosmic One, whether you believe or not..just Try,but strongly and tell your supplications...and wait to see..

Mamatomany

Hugs to you....
Don't know if you want to go there yet but...
Do you think OWH leaving and the boss finding out may change things? I know you'd like to R and w/ him spending time w/ you/kids still maybe he is confused and maybe things will work out?

Or

Should I be dogging him for being such a cheating B#tth3ad??
His freakin' loss! You have such a positive spirit stay strong!!

daisygirl 41

You know me m2m
I still think he's confused!
Xx
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hurtinme

Daisy this is where the good and nice people are, I hope you are ok and i know from reading your posts you have a lot of spirit be kind to yourself pamper and rest all my love xx
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Runs like Dog

People Suck. And they never disappoint on that score.

2nd_t!me iz_best

this is so true...
hugs to you daisygirl 41.

daisygirl 41

Words of wisdom.
He has let me down again.
So do I just give up now?
X
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daisygirl 41

Thankyou
The MLC forum says I should ride the storm!
I don't know what to do!
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2nd_t!me iz_best

im not one to try and tell anyone what to do
but i was in a 28 year marriage with the last 14 of her having several affairs.
what i learned from that is that in the future their first time will also be their last as far as im concerned.

good luck to you in whatever you do.

Mamatomany

Which MLC forum?
I bought two books - Surviving his Midlife Crisis (haven't finished my kids are always on my tablet).
I also just got Divorce Remedy... will be my wkd reading (it looks like the same but newer book of Divorce Busting.

So far from what I read it can go either way... how much cr@p can we put up with is the real question.