03-07-2012, 09:09 AM
Join Date: Dec 2011
| | I am wondering...
What do you make of it when they talk incessantly about nothing at all? Today, she just stared at me or spouted random sentences that may pass as conversation to some, not to me. I answered when I felt like it, but mostly stayed quite. Though I am trying to prevent myself from getting my hopes up, does this come off as rude or just unsettling?
We rarely talk about anything that important, it is meaningless conversation as far as I am concerned, but she hates the quiet, always thinks I am mad at her(past and present). I am around her more than some people are around their ex, though I feel stronger in resisting my old comforts, urges, and until recent desperation. I have changed my course around her, but I have to be a round her for various reasons. I am worried, eventually, my indifference will come off as hostility rather than neutral. Any thoughts or personal experience like this?
Does any one else have an ex that says strange things that seem like they are more so trying to boost themselves(make themselves feel better about insecurities) rather than make you feel bad or jealous? (as in things you laugh at or roll your eyes at how ridiculous it is).