02-25-2009, 09:00 AM
Join Date: Jan 2009
Location: Sweet Home Alabama
| | She is starting to reach out.....
Hiya folks! Sorry to have been away for a few days but ..it happens ya know? Let me get to my point and any feedback would be appreciated. Last week my wife started calling or texting me just to talk (usually it was just to talk about our son). I was a little bit taken back by this but enjoyed it just as well, I kept the converstions light and we even had a lunch date last Sunday that went really well. So this week she e-mails my mother, asking to meet and talk over lunch (she has had no contact with my mom since we separated). Mom, not being ugly or anything explains how she feels (sometimes mom can be a bit blunt) and really gets my wife upset, crying,etc. I get a call, my wife is hurt and needs me so I meet her at the house. I just held her, listened and did not offer any solutions but just let her know I was there for her. After a while, when she had calmed down we end up in bed the rest of the afternoon (and I sure needed that, it's been a while) enjoying each other. Just so you know I did not initiate the sex, she did. My question is what do you think, Is she trying to bring things back together in her own way? I am glad I was the one she called when she needed someone but just don't know what to think of the situation.