[sweetmelinda]

He is moving in with a girl who was a bridesmaid in my wedding. He just told me, though he told my daughter months ago, and asked her to keep it quiet (SERIOUSLY?!).
So I just want to spit on his face. And call her a *****.
I want to point out what a downgrade this is from not just our marriage, but a general horrible life decision.
I hope this makes all those mutual friends that abandoned me after the separation do the same to them.
And I hope everyone crawls back to say they are sorry to me.
Then. I will step on thier faces.
Not too bad?
Also I hope they stay together forever. I know them both too well. They will be absolutely miserable.

*I don't really mean this, I want a good place for my kids and a for them to see a happy father, but I can vent safely here right?*

[angelpixie]

Absolutely, sweetmelinda. That's a horrible situation! ((hugs))
I'm sorry you have found yourself here on the Island of Misfit Spouses, but vent all you want!

[Dollystanford]

Originally Posted by sweetmelinda

He is moving in with a girl who was a bridesmaid in my wedding.

what an as*hole - want me to beat him up for you?

[scione]

Is it evil to want all cheaters to get HIV?

[2nd_t!me iz_best]

Originally Posted by Dollystanford

what an as*hole - want me to beat him up for you?

somehow i bet you can.

[CantePe]

I had a dream that I snipped WH from a tree in our backyard, fully decked out in fatigues in a tree blind in broad daylight...

Does that count for this thread?

[Wildflower3]

I would curse him with Crohn's Disease and hope it would always flare up right before he did the deed with someone else.

I'd hope he finds someone to be with and fall in love with and be with for 15 years only to be rejected by her "Oh, I never loved you. It's over".

[Homemaker_Numero_Uno]

Ignore him.
Not think about him.
Oh wait, I pretty much do that already.

[Runs like Dog]

'If only I could' is really just 'how can I get away with this'. You'd be amazed at how little cash it takes to find someone to 'scare' someone you badly need to get a stern message to. Back in the day my friend was being sexually attacked by relative. So we found someone on the cheap to bust him up with a bat. This day and age you could do it with a gift card. I'm not suggesting we all run out and start whacking each other. Just saying it's not all that hard to do, assuming you're not looking to kill them.

[canguy66]

I understand the spirit of this thread, but I don't wish my ex any harm, grief or pain. In fact, I wish her happiness, the right guy for her, and the very best in life. I wish myself the very same, but replace the right guy with the right woman.

I also wish myself a massive lottery win. The separation agreement states what's hers is hers and what's mine is mine.

Come ooooooooon Lotto Max.

[jpr]

Originally Posted by canguy66

I understand the spirit of this thread, but I don't wish my ex any harm, grief or pain. In fact, I wish her happiness, the right guy for her, and the very best in life. I wish myself the very same, but replace the right guy with the right woman.

I also wish myself a massive lottery win. The separation agreement states what's hers is hers and what's mine is mine.

Come ooooooooon Lotto Max.

Oh, Canguy...you always take the high road and make the most rational posts.

I mostly feel this way now...however, there are times when I *REALLY* would like to blab to my ex-husband's co-workers and tell them that the real reason we are getting a divorce is because he is having an affair with his grad student. They all think that he is such a professional and intelligent guy. I would sometimes love to burst that bubble and tell them about how, instead of staying with me in the hospital after I gave birth, he went home and he spent the evening watching my favorite movie, cuddled up on my couch with his student.

...I have many more stories like that one.

Sometimes I just want to shout from the rooftops and tell everyone what a poop-head he is....just to cleanse myself of this absurdity that was once my life.

..but, I know that would only make me feel satisfied for a second...and in the grand scheme of things, that is not the type of person I ultimately want to be. And, truthfully, I hope and pray each day that he will become a better man for our son. (...but, not for me...I am done with him. )

[jpr]

...but it is nice to fantasize.

[Runs like Dog]

If I had an iPhone I'd be telling Siri to kill mad people.

[angelpixie]

Originally Posted by Runs like Dog

If I had an iPhone I'd be telling Siri to kill mad people.

'Mad' as in angry, or 'mad' as in crazy?

[Runs like Dog]

mad as in lots of them.