[canguy66]

Originally Posted by jpr

I mostly feel this way now...however, there are times when I *REALLY* would like to blab to my ex-husband's co-workers and tell them that the real reason we are getting a divorce is because he is having an affair with his grad student. They all think that he is such a professional and intelligent guy. I would sometimes love to burst that bubble and tell them about how, instead of staying with me in the hospital after I gave birth, he went home and he spent the evening watching my favorite movie, cuddled up on my couch with his student.

Ouch... very sorry he did that to you. That is unforgivable to say the least! Man-o-man... still shaking my head on that one.

I know what you mean, as many people think my ex is all this and the other thing, when I know her true colours... the selfishness, manipulation. Not to take away from her qualities mind you, but she's a person of appearances. The fluff is more important than the substance, but hey, I'll stop myself now.

Thanks for the compliment too!

[Numb in Ohio]

The only thing so far I can think of is that I would love to be able to get him and his 2 "friends" unknowingly meet up in the same room with me and then see how fast he wants to bury his head in the sand...

[Mamatomany]

karma.... just rely on him getting what he is due.

[Runs like Dog]

Take em all up in hot air balloon, shot gun the balloon and parachute out. Preferably over a swamp filled with mutant radioactive alligators.

[Numb in Ohio]

I had lunch with his previous wife today,,maybe we should of called him on 3 way calling and had a conversation with him exposing all the lies he told me about their relationship and her...

[Lon]

I would enjoy seeing my ex only ever be able to land guys that only want sex from her and nothing more. I mean, that's what she even said is all she wanted when she left me, good luck to her! Also, would love it if they were selfish lovers who didn't care about her O or giving cunnilingus (like she was bragging about her AP's). It would make my life easier actually, not having to stress about some strange dudes stepping in and out of my son's life when he lives with her.

[proudwidaddy]

Lon I basically feel the same about my ex, just want the guys to get there's and leave her hanging. I always made sure she had her "o" before I did. She even commented on how grrat a lover I was
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[Lon]

Originally Posted by proudwidaddy

Lon I basically feel the same about my ex, just want the guys to get there's and leave her hanging. I always made sure she had her "o" before I did. She even commented on how grrat a lover I was
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Yeah, mine said she was sad to leave me because when we had sex it was always so great, and it was one thing that made it hard for her to choose to leave. I guess the fact that we were on pace for twice a year sexual relations sealed the deal... and I'm not really sure who takes the blame for it, I stopped pursuing, but she had been rejecting me since long before I quit - then she blamed me for the occasional times near the beginning of our marriage that I wasn't up for it (like probably half a dozen times my entire marriage). Maybe if I'd have been more selfish I could have taken her every night like she wanted, but I wouldn't have been putting in any effort to get her off that would have been her problem (just like it became when she rejected me anyway)

[Runs like Dog]

The serenity prayer

Dear Lord calm my hand and steady my nerves so I can plink them in the 10-spot from 225 yards in a crosswind.

Amen.