I want the kids!

I have been part of my stepsons life since he was 6 (14 years) I don't think it would be good to show him how his mom is acting. It may come out in the future but I see no need in putting it under his nose. He is a pretty good kid overall. He does some things I just don't understand but didn't we all at age 20.

warlock07

How old are you and your wife? Just a word of caution. You are so caught up in collecting evidence that you are letting your wife put the kids in dangerous situations. Your wife is going off the rails. Going by the suicide letters, she is having a mental breakdown and is in a self destructive cycle. Sooner or later, she will put herself and the kids in a dangerous position. The OM is likely a predator and he feeding on your wife's metal illness. And who knows what the crowd around him is like, so exposing your kids around him should be unacceptable.


Try getting your wife into some sort of therapy. offer an incentive in the divorce to go the therapy. She needs it. Tell her that what she is doing is very dangerous to both the kids and her in calm and non-confrontational manner. Imply that you know more that what she assumes you know without revealing anything major.(I know you are cheating but I don't care) The marriage is dead but the kids need a mom, alive and mentally sane.

I want the kids!

My wife turned 40 in March. I'm 41.

I want the kids!

Why do our "others" keep lying for no reason? Sunday she told me she wanted to take our daughter to a specific event. Find out from my daughter they didn't do that at all but went a few other places. My WW told me they ran out of time but the original event was all day! So silly.