04-28-2012, 10:10 PM
Join Date: Apr 2012
| | Re: My wife says she wants a divorce. Any help appreciated?
So today my wife was going to Sam's club grocery store (they have an open house this weekend so you don't need to be a member to shop) I asked if she was going to take our daughter. I wanted to see if she would make a fuss. She took her. As she was leaving she aske if it would be alright to go out to lunch with our daughter. I said "i guess so" she took that to mean no. I then had to smooth that over. I told her I didn't say no, it is up to you I just needed to know if I was feeding the family or just me and my son. She calmed down and left at 10:45. Got back at 2:30. Didn't get luch because they had snacks at Sam's club (samples) then my daughter told me they stopped at a park but she didn't get to play. The slide was wet and other kids were on the swings. Mom sat and talked to a guy on a bench she told me!! I felt sick. I asked if mom introduced her, no. I probed a bit more but my daughter is only 4 (5 next month) so she isn't a good source, doesn't knowwhat to keep track of etc or a good judge of time. But I tried to give the benefit of doubt but the more I think of it, since my daughter didn't play why did they stay? It had to be a meeting or something. Really hurts that my wife is doing this in front of my daughter. Now I have been thinking of ways to catch her in the act but have not come up with anything. I want to get more specific dirt on my wife so I can have it in court.
She is out again tonight to see our son perform at a local bar. He is part of a "dance" show. She left at 5:45 and the show doesn't start until 10:30. She used the same tired line "her friend Deb" is going too. Actually my Bro is going so I called him and he said he was going around 8 or 8:30 and my wife was meeting him there. I asked he keep notes and report back. I'm sure she will be on her best behavor in front of him. I don't think my wife knows that he knows we are splitting.
I am getting more insecure everyday. I can't trust anything my wife says or does for that matter.
Any pointers to add are welcomed.
Should I try to get a GPS unit for her car? I am on a pretty tight budget.