Few questions on the 180
I have a question about the 180. OK, basically I understand it's logic and appreciate, really, all the points mentioned. I can see how, perhaps, it would make a difference if a wife was say hurting but not totally gone in her mind. But I am wondering if it is applicable in my situation. My wife is a WAW, not interested in trying, and prefers not to even discuss trying (since she says it shows I do not respect her decision....). She says she does not love me any more, and realized that this has been her state for the last 1-2 years.
So I have two questions:
1. In such a case, does the 180 stand a chance? Or is she too far gone?
2. If you do the 180, does that not send a signal that "hey, he is OK, coping, getting on with life" and therefore she will think that everything is "OK" and I am getting over her and no longer interested in reconciliation?