04-18-2012, 10:17 AM
Join Date: Feb 2012
| | How long does it take to feel again?
I previously posted about my 'Jerry Springer' episode of a marriage back in February and was advised to just let it go and move on. Since then friends and families got involved and we are now about to start divorce proceedings.
I have been trying to live life and move on and I'm wondering when you start to feel anything again? When it becomes real and you realise that you spouse is never going to be part of your life anymore? When you can start to get good night's sleeps and know that just because your STXH didn't appreciate or respect you, someone else on the planet will and you won't be alone for ever. And how to rebuild your self esteem and feel like a person of value, not a doorstep to tread on.
Basically, what is the turning point where you stop feeling like a failure and start to feel in control of your life again?