03-08-2009, 10:05 PM
Join Date: Nov 2008
| | Re: what do i do now
Originally Posted by stillhurtin
we have been seperated for a month. i am living at my parents house. which really sucks. meanwhile she is at home with the kids, and her new friend(which use to be a friend of mine). she still expects me to pay the mortgage, and all that stuff. i refuse. we go for our innitial hearing the 26th. i have good dreams of her every night. we are having a very difficult coustady problem. she thinks i should have them every other weekend and every wensday for a few hours. i want more than that. i just really miss her, and all the good times i know we could have.
I understand your hurt and what you are going through. I suggest that you take up a new hobby or spend some time doing something for you. Do something you love or have wanted to try for years. Reconnect with yourself and work on making yourself happy. Be the best you possible. If it works out great, you are a better husband and father. If not, then you are able to know what you are capable of and are happy being you.
To be what we are and to become what we are capable of becoming, is the only end of life.