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Old 04-27-2012, 11:02 AM   #16 (permalink)
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She's lost to you friend. Hate to say it but you drove her to this. I almost never blame the betrayed spouse, but in this case you are paying the piper and I think you know that. It does not excuse her infidelity, but its not a surprise either.

Time to move on. Get a lawyer and get the ball rolling. Learn from your mistakes, keep up with your AA and sobriety, and try to get by with the most amicable divorce you can.

Good luck.
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Old 04-27-2012, 12:09 PM   #17 (permalink)
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I agree with bandit. There was so much damage done by your alcoholism that your wife has emotionally checked out. Time to file for divorce and move on without her.
"Man is not a rational animal, he is a rationalizing animal." Robert A. Heinlein

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Old 04-27-2012, 12:35 PM   #18 (permalink)
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Don't go back to the one thing that drove her away if it goes that route my friend.
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