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Old 05-03-2012, 12:43 PM   #1 (permalink)
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Would you rather have great sex with only mediocre romantic feelings with the other person, or mediocre sex but great romantic feelings?
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Old 05-03-2012, 12:48 PM   #2 (permalink)
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I actually think that if you have great romantic feelings the sex will be better:-) You'll be making love not just getting a piece of @$$.
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Old 05-03-2012, 12:52 PM   #3 (permalink)
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Right now I rather have great sex. I hope you are asking because you had one or the other recently ... you better not be taking about your x proud.
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Old 05-03-2012, 12:54 PM   #4 (permalink)
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No I'm thinking about the future, its been five months since I've had sex last
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Old 05-03-2012, 01:01 PM   #5 (permalink)
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Old 05-03-2012, 01:02 PM   #6 (permalink)
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I hear you. Almost 2 months for me. Not an easy task.
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Old 05-03-2012, 01:35 PM   #7 (permalink)
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Since I'm not looking for love...yeah, I'd rather have great sex with only mediocre romantic feelings. I'll let you know when it happens.
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Old 05-03-2012, 01:57 PM   #8 (permalink)
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Either or. Please and thank you.
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Old 05-03-2012, 04:33 PM   #9 (permalink)
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I actually think that if you have great romantic feelings the sex will be better:-) You'll be making love not just getting a piece of @$$.
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Old 05-03-2012, 04:50 PM   #10 (permalink)
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right now? sex. it doesn't even have to be that great. :-D

but, ultimately I would like to have a deep and satisfying emotional connection with someone else.
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right now? sex. it doesn't even have to be that great. :-D

but, ultimately I would like to have a deep and satisfying emotional connection with someone else.
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Well, you are a hottie, so I bet if you went out it wouldn't be hard to get ... and the fireman would be cool too after all they are physically fit and should have some endurance.
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Old 05-03-2012, 05:04 PM   #12 (permalink)
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Either or. Please and thank you.
Traggy you're awfully cute I bet you could get some in a heartbeat
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Old 05-03-2012, 05:11 PM   #13 (permalink)
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JPR, I keep hearing about your photo. If you'd like to share, feel free. In return, I can PM you a photo of a really cute puppy.
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Old 05-03-2012, 05:15 PM   #14 (permalink)
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I would go for great romantic feelings. As for great sex, been there done that. Haven't really done the romantic stuff properly.

I know this is hypothetical but I agree with Mama, romance and great sex should go hand in hand but you can have great sex without the romance. One is making love, the other is making lust.
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Old 05-03-2012, 05:30 PM   #15 (permalink)
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I like both. I think making love starts long before the actual date. Talking sweetly to a woman; making her feel like she's the only female on earth; sending her a rose and hand written note to her workplace, telling her how much you are looking forward to seeing her that night; treating her like a queen at dinner and never taking your eyes off of her; dancing slow; and then if you do end up in the bedroom, turn into the wolfman!... knock the pictures off the walls and the legs off the bed!
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