05-03-2012, 03:38 PM
Join Date: Jan 2012
| | Re: Questions to Betrayed Spouse
Originally Posted by scione
I don't know if I should post this in infidelity section or here, but I think it's more about divorce and separation.
Questions to betrayed spouse:
It seems most of us who've been left high and dry found out that their spouses cheated (EA, PA, or both).
The question is what if none of you ever say anything about it. Just leave it alone. Let your spouse do whatever he/she wants. Would your spouse stay and never leave or would your spouse leave anyway?
How far would you go to save your marriage? Would you allow your spouse to cheat on you and never say a word so that your spouse would stay with you and never leave? Would you act as though nothing happen?
There are people that do that and they stay, grow old, and die together. I don't know about happy, but they stay together pretty long time.
Just wanting to know other people's opinion
I know he has had some kind of A, at first I would have let it go. He was talking/texting/emailing whatever in the house and I wouldn't stand for it anymore (He was begging to leave anyway). I would have taken him back in the beginning now there is no way. I would have wanted MC and to have worked to fix the marriage but he has done way too much damage to it now (time, money, emotions are all a mess because of him). PLUS the way he has not been around for the kids (like he barely remembers he has them and when we have no money for milk he is going out to fine restaurants) with someone or going to the zoo (not w/ his kids!). Yeah, he is losing big time.
Nothing after these 5 months would make me want him back.