Originally Posted by keko
How about physically?
You need to prepare yourself for your stbx's replacement.
Physically? Oh ya there is a HUGE difference in how I look physically. 40 lbs dropped, but that doesn't take into consideration the lbs of muscle I've put on. My weights have been going up quite a bit and that's without me being on a diet, which I have a meal plan for but need to get back to work to afford it.
Hell, the suit I bought last year doesn't even fit me anymore. I dressed up for my daughters dance recital yesterday and I had to poke 2 new notches into my belt lol. The dress shirt looked silly on me even tucked as far as it could go and I couldn't wear the jacket because it looked huge and funny.
As for my replacement, I have been replaced. I know it in my gut, replaced by an EA for sure (the proof was in the 200mb a day she was going through). If not an EA anymore then someone local, so I guess I really just need confirmation and then it will hit me in the gut.
She's so angry at me, I can feel the contempt, the resentment, total disrespect and all that other fun stuff. But they can stew in it for all I care.
I have grown so much as a person in the last 2 months thanks to these boards and just the fact that I have only myself to focus on.
Once I go back to work it's going to be a real grind, being on a 2 week swing shift. When I'm on evenings I will have all morning / early afternoon to myself .. no kids, BUT I can hit the gym every single morning.
Then when I'm on days, I will have the kids after work from daycare BUT I can pick them up a hour later (around 530ish) so I have a hour and a bit to hit the gym before getting them. Which means in 2 months time I will have endless time for the gym, I am excited for that.