for tax purposes he wants to claim tax as primary carer
this is what he states, he also said he would put on the divorce that i have full custody, not sure how that would work, when the children are never with him, wouldn't that be fraud.
he explains that his brother-in-laws mothers does this for her grand children, because his sister owes alot of back taxes, so they would never see that money.
And he says no one is claiming that money in taxes with the children so presently wasted, so he would then give it to the children, then they would also receive it after he has died till they are 18.
my main concern is not the money, my concern is if he gets them social security numbers that he will get them passports, he did try this before with our first child he was insistent getting a passport as well, i did take legal advice and the lawyer said no.
he has threaten to take me to court over custody before, accused me of saying things about him to our then 3 year old, apparently i said things to make him threaten me with this, i said nothing.
i am being made to feel guilty about his financial situation, and being told the children will lose out on the money as he is dying
why can't he get a job and earn money like everyone else does.