Re: divorce filed but i didnt want ti
She had been divorced for 2 years. We dated for 18 months. I never wanted this, I never expected this. I am by no way perfect in this marriage, and can accept that I caused some of her hurt by things I said and ways I acted through some of our difficult times. I have been IC and was making headway, but she blew up on me a week ago and just went on this rant about how she was so done with me and wanted a divorce. I told her that we should think about trying to get a third party to discuss why we yell at each other and why we say the things we say, but she was totally numb to it.
What about the children? If the marriage was able to be fixed, I thought to myself that the boys could be shown that two people can reconcile. A great success story, but it looks as though it will never be given a chance.
Am i wrong to try and do everything I can even though i filed? Im 37 but have never felt this way about any woman before..