07-17-2012, 10:57 AM
Join Date: Jun 2012
| | Re: Asset split -- probably screwed.
like others have said, it all depends on your state laws. in michigan, we're no fault so you can sleep with everyone in the tricounty area and it doesn't effect your divorce.
i understand you are probably angry and hurt over the affair, but i would advise against acting out of anger. what she did was wrong, and i understand if you have no desire to R. i would be the bigger person and give her back what she put in. split joint belongings fairly. try to agree on as much as you can between the two of you, or you will both just be paying lawyers to watch you argue. if you are religious, this is the right thing to do. if you aren't, it will make you feel better in the end.