07-24-2012, 04:54 PM
Join Date: Jun 2012
| | Re: My Wife Left Last Tuesday
it's different now that she left. please trust us. most of ur have done the same thing you're doing. "i'll show him/her how much i love them and need them! i'll totally win them back with my honesty and love!"
no, you will make her run in the opposite direction.
right now she wants space to figure out what she wants. a sad heartbroken man is not attractive. a strong confident man is. right now you're acting like you can't live without her, but you can. you don't share any major vital organs. show her that you love and respect her, but don't need her to survive. remember back in high school, or back in the bar days, it was the confident outgoing guys who alway got the girl? be that guy! do you ever remember seeing the sad, broken, insecure, guy getting all the chicks? nope.
when she sees you happy, secure, confident, not needy, you will peak her interest. weight loss/muscle gain, new hair, clothes, attitude. what ever you have to do to turn yourself around.